Add a setting to enable better security/privacy on login/password reset forms

This issue has become a feature request for a new setting to be added that allows enabling better privacy on login/password reset forms. This will mean those who prefer usernames/email addresses not be revealed can enable that setting, and those who prefer the better UX of knowing what incorrect information was submitted to these forms can leave it disabled.

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If I enter my username in the Reset Password form (/user/password) and submit, I see this message:

Further instructions have been sent to your e-mail address.

If I enter a made-up username in the same form and submit, I get this:

Sorry, [made-up username] is not recognized as a user name or an e-mail address.

This basically tells people whether or not a given username or email address is in-use on the site. I see this as a (low) security issue and possible privacy issue.

I recommend instead giving something like the following message (like I've seen on other sites) whether a valid or invalid username/email address was entered:

If a matching account was found, further instructions have been sent to that account's e-mail address.